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Dear Chris,
I wanted to take the opportunity to wish you a Happy New Year, and thank you once again for finding my husband's birthfamily.
I don't know if you remember my husband, but he was the one who said he "didn't care whether you found his birthmom or not."
Well, since then, the reunion has been going positively. It is not a storybook reunion in that his birthmom is still struggling with many painful memories and issues. But she sent him a Christmas card that said how blessed she felt to have been found.
She was also able to give us enough information to find his birthfather. He at first said he did not want a reunion, but gave us medical background. Since then, (September) he has written twice. So his situation is progressing slowly, but positively.
I too, feel blessed to have hired you. The counseling session you gave us for my husband's birthmom - and the help you gave me about what to say to the birthfather made all the difference in the world.
That's what unique about you, Chris. You don't just "find" for people. You care enough to follow up with the counseling session telling people what to expect, what to say, etc.
I can't tell you how positively finding my husband's birthparents has been to his life. His whole attitude toward life has just been moved up a notch. And I have you to thank for that!
BS NYS |
Hi Chris,
Hope you are having a wonderful holiday. T is going through some tough times. We had an incredible one day meeting with his birthmother and now she is telling us that she never had a son. Its so hard. The good news is that he has connected with his Uncle in Indiana and speaks with him on a weekly basis. Seems like his birthmother has not had much contact with most of her family. In anycase, its so good to have the truth at last. T keeps talking about calling you. I'm sure he will soon. Take care.
Thanks again.
ML Calif |
Thank you! I wish you the same! I know you are curious. I have not yet contacted my birthson, preferring to wait until after the Holidays are over and there is less intensity for everyone. I want to be calm and collected and focused when I make my approach. My objective is to create connection and happiness, not to cause unnecessary pain for anyone. It has been hard to wait, knowing where he is and how to get in touch with him, but I think it will turn out to have been wise. As soon as I make contact, I will let you know how it went. We can celebrate or commiserate together! Keep up your very good and worthy work.
MT - NC |
Chris,
This is letting you know that I owe you my life! I metmy daughter yesterday, and everything went GREAT! She is beautiful! I also a healthy Grandson! The first thing he did was smile at me! He is such a happy kid!
As for my daughter, she told me she had been looking for me too. She had been to Social Services, wrote them letters and they wouldn't tell her a thing! She asked me lots of questions about how I found her, and I was honest! I told her about you and she is grateful.
I stayed down at her house until around 6pm lastnight, and she wants me back down there
around lunch today! Guess thats where I'll be heading around that time! Question- At this point is there such a thing as "wearing out your welcome"? *smile*
I sure hope not! At this point I'm just being that"Mom" figure that I've never been! I will write more later........ just wanted to say thanks for now!
"THANKS CHRIS. You have made my DREAM come
true! I love you!!
*Smile*
LM NC |
Chris,
This is letting you know that I owe you my life! I metmy daughter yesterday, and everything went GREAT! She is beautiful! I also a healthy Grandson! The first thing he did was smile at me! He is such a happy kid!
As for my daughter, she told me she had been looking for me too. She had been to Social Services, wrote them letters and they wouldn't tell her a thing! She asked me lots of questions about how I found her, and I was honest! I told her about you and she is grateful.
I stayed down at her house until around 6pm lastnight, and she wants me back down there
around lunch today! Guess thats where I'll be heading around that time! Question- At this point is there such a thing as "wearing out your welcome"? *smile*
I sure hope not! At this point I'm just being that"Mom" figure that I've never been! I will write more later........ just wanted to say thanks for now!
"THANKS CHRIS. You have made my DREAM come
true! I love you!!
*Smile*
LM NC |
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