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Hi. I am GW and 4 or 5 years ago I contacted you and had you find my birth parents. I contacted them and they rejected me but that is not the end of the story. I'd like to share my story with you and anyone it may help.
I was nervous about trusting you. I was suppose to send my money to you before I got the information. It was the internet, easy to get ripped off (I thought). It wasn't exactly a small amount of money. So with a leap of faith, I sent the money and I immediately recieved the information
about my birth parents, their siblings, that I had a sister, information on her and her children. I got a lot for my money. So I did the parent thing and was rebuffed. Then I contacted my sister. (As it turned out my birth mother married my birth father a year after I was born so my sister if my full sister!) Well we were both raised as only children and that gave us even more in common. We are now becoming the very best of friends. We are in touch daily via email. We write regularly and we even have a youngest daughter with the same name!!
I want to share that this has given a whole new demension to my life.
My sister has shared family history with me. I know a lot about who my ancestors were and what they did. We are alike in so many ways. This all occurred after I was in my 50's. So my sister and I are making up for lost time. (At Christmas she sent me cookies and said they represent all the cookies we didn't get to share as kids) My life is so much more "grounded" now. I know who I am and that makes so much difference. Our parents don't know that we are in touch with each other. It does not serve any purpose for them to know. They are elderly and set in their ways. But my sister and I now have each other and it just doesn't get any better than that.
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Chris- I just wanted to let you know all is well here. You helped me find my biological mother and sibling last December.(unfortunately, my b. father had passed away 9 months prior and my other b. sibling ten years before).
It was a great decision- one I will never regret. We have met once and communicate frequently. I truly now understand the nature/nurture meaning. I appreciate your kind heart- you were truly supportive and understanding for me at the
time. I am very grateful! God Bless-
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