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Dear Chris:
I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the search you did for me. If it wasn't for you I would be still on the Internet sites trying to find my Mom. I took your advise in making a phone call to my Mom.
This is the way the phone call went. The phone rang and my birthmom's daughter answered the phone and I asked to speak to my birthmom. She asked what this was in reference to and I told her it was a personal matter. My birthmom answered and I asked if she was able to talk about a personal matter or should I call back another time. She said she could talk and I told her it was of a private matter and again she said she was able to talk. I asked her to bear with me for I was nervous and my hands were shaking. I told her that we may have meet in the past and she asked me where and I told her in SC. She said I hope you are who I think you are, and I went on to tell her if the date September 29th 1956 meant anything and she said Oh My God you're my son. I told her yes Mom I'm your son. In the background I could here my birthsister saying that they had another brother. She went on to tell me over the years she had thought of me many times and that she didn't ever expect to here from me. She asked where I was living and I told her. She told me if she had known I was that close to her she would have come and seen me. She asked me if I wanted to meet her and I told Mom you don't know how much I want to see you. I told her how I was told I was adopted. That my Mom didn't love me or want anything to do with me. She reaffirmed the fact that wasn't the case that she loved me very much and at the last minute almost changed her mind. But thought what was best for me. I also told her that my adoptive mother had passed away in February and my stepfather had given me an envelope with all my adoption papers and a letter from her. I also told her that it was her letter that kept me going to find her. She went on to tell me I had 2 sisters and 3 brothers. I told her I was off on Tuesday and if that was a good day for us to meet and she said that would be fine. She also asked if I had my baby pictures and I said yes. She said she had asked many times if my grandmother had any pictures of me and she would say no. Well, Chris this meeting would not have been possible if it wasn't for you.
Chris, again I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this reunion possible. Thanks to you, you have made my Mom and me the happiest 2 people on this earth.
Sincerely,
JB/VA |
chris- just to let youknow that I had the most wonderful conversation with my birth mother this morning. I called her at work and we talked for an hour- and I;m going down to CT. this weekend to meet her and her husband and one of my half sisters. it's better than Hollywood! I could not have imagined a more positive reaction. thankyou-
RT/NY |
chris- just to update you- our reunion was yesterday the 22nd and it continues to be a fairy tale- I not only met my mom- but also her husband and my half sister from PA flew up to spend the day. we all spent an amazing day together. we all like each other and I know that there will be a continued relationship.sometimes life works out.-
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