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Thanks so much for all your help. L and I talk all the time and have met twice. She has moved to NC and I to VA, but we plan to see each other as much as posible. I will also meet her kids soon. Thanks again, A-NC |
Hi !
Just wanted to let you know that I have made contact with my son thanks to you people. I sent a letter to him and last week he sent one back to me with a picture of himself and two children.. He has my eyes ! I don't know where it will go from here but I have found the missing piece to my life's puzzle.. I am thrilled that he is well and adjusted to life as an adopted person.. He always knew he was adopted but chose not to look for his birth parents. I would never have found him looking through registries etc...the money spent was well worth it.. If you ever need someone to use as a reference please use me..Again THANK YOU.
LC/PA |
Dear Chris:
I want to thank you again for finding my brother for me 10 years ago.
I am currently helping a friend with a search and keep running into brick walls. I am hoping you can help us, you are our last resort. She thought she had found her b/m a couple years ago through a registry. Everything matched except the woman was unsure of the exact year that her daughter was born. She flew to TN to meet her and had a DNA test done and it came back negative. The whole thing cost her $1,700 and destroyed her emotionally. She does not want to put herself through it again without being 100%
certain. Her daughter and I are doing the search for her. She is willing to pay for your services if you can help.The problem was that the adoption was not done legitimately. The doctor who delivered her issued a FALSE birth certificate with incorrect information. The parents names on the one she has does not even have the correct
information of the adoptive parents.
She was born in a small area in TN. The b/m probably not married and her family could not afford to pay the medical expenses and turned the baby over to the doctor at birth. The b/m was admitted into the hospital under the
adoptive parents name. Her adoptive mothers aunt was a nurse at the hospital (she is now deceased) and took the baby immediately after she was born to her house until the adoptive parents could fly up from Miami and pick her up.
Please let us know if you can help us. Thank you.
LB/TN |
I just wanted to thank you for locating my birth mother. We ended up calling her 2 saturdays ago. I had my husband talk to her first. We will be meeting her on sunday of this wk. Once again, thank you for all your help.
DG/PA |
I wanted to give you a quick update on my birth mother contact. I tried to use as many techniques as I could that you recommended but honestly it was tough and I had to wing it overall.I called last Thursday 3pm. She was very receptive and sweet. Inquired about me and seemed to care. She indicated that her husband and children do not know of me (not the Birth father). She indicated that her husband in particular and family will not receive the situation very well. The husband has the post traumatic syndrome….. I indicated that was okay and up to her. She is not able to drive so would have to rely on family to see me. She has no family except her husband. I spoke with her for 25 great minutes until the husband came home and she had to get off. We really seemed to hit it off. She sounded and talked (articulated) a lot like me. I truly enjoyed the moment but was concerned that she may never contact me again. I indicated that I would respect her situation. I certainly did not get all the answers but It was still great.
Thank goodness she emailed later (4pm) and set up a new yahoo account. She was perfect, saying all the right things and seemed to indicate she would continue contact. A quote from her “I know I'm not your parent, but just your biological mother, but I love you very much, and can't wait to hear from you again???. This was as good as I could ever expect. I responded with a heart felt and understanding reply, not too pushy or gushy. Just stating my understanding of her situation, respect of her, and just basic wants to get to know her a bit if possible.
She has not replied yet. I know it was a holiday with lots of people around but I am anxious. I sent a very short additional email to her Sunday saying happy Easter and attached a photo of me and the wife. I do not plan to email or call again for a good long while. Don’t want to seem like a stalker. I am anxious and impatient to say the least but I understand I have to chill out. Its hard to relax and just go with it in this type of situation, as you know.
Anyway, your information was dead on accurate. Any thoughts would be great.
Thanks again Chris!
This has been one of the most amazing things in my life. Thanks for your hard work.
Regards,
CG/NY |
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